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Dumb Guys Finish Last!
Tuesday, October 20, 2009 @ 11:47 PM

You've probably heard the term "nice guys finish last".
And you've probably heard of it many times.


What is it about "nice guys" that is unattractive to woman in general nowadays? It seems that girls are more attracted to good looking assholes. What do women really mean when they said they want to date a "nice" guy but, when given an actual choice between a nice, sensitive and decent guy, they prefer to go for the badass, macho-looking jerk?


Oh well. Here's how I perceive it.

Women do mean it when they say they wanna date a "NICE" guy. By "nice" they meant,
  • sensitive
  • guys who can take control in their masculine role
  • manly priorities
  • confident in their own skin
  • confident around woman
  • a romantic person
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with nice guys. These are the traits that actually impresses a woman especially on a first-date basis and a first impression, whether the guy seems nice or not.

So what is wrong with them?
NOTHING.


It is the DUMB guys that is turning off woman. I don't mean retarded men or men with low IQs. Im saying men who doesn't know how to make their move. One who makes his move way too slow.

Women are not as complex as how men think they are.
Everything about women is black and
white too. Just like men.

Women are all about clear signals.


No more Mr.Dumb Guy

Women aren't that hard to figure out. How to know if they are really interested in you?

1# Eye contact
You caught her checking you out. Some women are not afraid to make eye contact with their man of interest, some are shy when it comes to making eye contact but no matter what, they always try to steal a glance at their man of interest whenever they have the chance to.

2# Body contact


She flirts with you. And NOT other guys. Most women talks extra and flirts extra with man they are interested in. And if you are interested back, flirt back. And if they continue flirting with YOU, it is a positive sign.



3# Impression
She dresses up when she knows she is going to see you. Whether its only at class or for movie and dinner. She wants to look good. For YOU.

4# Laugh it Out
When a girl is interested in a guy, she laughs at his dumbest jokes. Whether it is funny or not, she finds it funny.

5# Communication
She replies your text messages all the time. Not only that, she also texts you first. Sometimes, she sends you random texts.


Although all these can be boiled down to these few points, you need to know that any single point can be deceptive. She might be interested to go out with you on a date or she may be only flirting with you with no intentions. Whichever it is, women always want the guys to be one who make the first move.

And if you are interested, DON'T wait. Women get tired of waiting after a certain period.

Ask her out for dinner.
Get to know her.

Who knows what will happen?




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